Methods of handling information that will help to correctly assess other people's claims and defend their position reasonably.
In order to act sensibly and to talk about anything, one should not limit oneself to own experience. The argument "so they always did" quickly went out of fashion with the spread of general literacy and mass printing, so it does not work as well as before. Today, our actions are largely determined by what we have somewhere heard or read.
But even experts are always mistaken, not to mention the fact that there are always many people who want to take advantage of our trustfulness: from enterprising merchants with healing bracelets and unique healing techniques to unscrupulous politicians who need public support. Therefore, each of us, to the best of our ability, tries to filter the surrounding information, to separate the true from the false and inaccurate.

In families where more than one child, each of them is unique in psychological terms. One of the factors that determines the uniqueness of the child in the family, is the order of birth. Birth, for example, the second falls into a different psychological situation in comparison with the first-born, and generates other psychological characteristics.
Although this is only one of the factors that influence the formation of personality, but considering it, you can better understand some features of the character, habits, problems in society. However, we can not ignore the style of parental behavior, attitudes towards children, the position of the child that are of equal importance.

At what point does it become a problem for you so much that the idea to go to a psychologist? What happened in the family or outside the family?
It was decided to go to a psychologist? Whose idea was it?
What does the customer expect from a psychologist?
As a psychologist was chosen?
Do those in the family who are skeptical, objecting, doubt or fear in relation to the work with a psychologist?
Do the customer experience with a psychologist? What parallels can be drawn with the current work with a psychologist?

Technique counseling in a systems approach.
1. Transformation of static characteristics in behavior.
Individual, static characteristics are derived from the repeating patterns of behavior. They need to get back to the level of behavior, asking about the following questions:
How to behave as a husband, to be seen as "the mattress"?
How does the wife when her condition is described as "depressing"?
2. Accounting context in which manifested psychological characteristics and behavior.
Rate the value and effectiveness of the psychological characteristics of behavior is possible only in the context of a particular situation.
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